tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post7757417631252928137..comments2024-01-17T04:02:48.328-06:00Comments on A Wedding of Our Own: Pre-marital Counseling, is it worth it?LindsFMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13424616103795706999noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-64065672965426317042013-06-20T17:52:50.754-05:002013-06-20T17:52:50.754-05:00I offer a secular premarital counseling program fo...I offer a secular premarital counseling program for $59. <br />http://revolutionwed.com/Premarital_Counseling.htmlMinister Stacihttp://revolutionwed.com/Premarital_Counseling.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-54142133211708361072011-03-04T13:14:50.631-06:002011-03-04T13:14:50.631-06:00I teach a premarital webinar for thinkmarriage.org...I teach a premarital webinar for thinkmarriage.org and have seen first hand the difference it makes in couple's relationships. It is so helpful to make sure you are on the same page and learn some new skills in communication and conflict resolution. You can never stop investing in your relationship!Julie Duffyhttp://thinkmarriage.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-6365924340972661442010-03-12T00:35:03.480-06:002010-03-12T00:35:03.480-06:00My FH and I went to premarital counseling and it w...My FH and I went to premarital counseling and it was definitely worth it. It is really helpful to have someone coach you through some important conversations. Luckily 5 visits were free through my work benefits, but we only needed 4 and our counselor said we were good to go. I wouldn't hesitate to approach marital counseling in the future if needed, and my FH really appreciated the experience as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-41645218239777788252010-03-11T15:09:41.065-06:002010-03-11T15:09:41.065-06:00I say to follow your heart and do what feels right...I say to follow your heart and do what feels right for you. Maybe go once to the new person (&65) and see if your instincts tell you it's worth it or not... love your blog btw, so many honest thoughts for us brides-to-be.dognbirdhttp://www.dognbird.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-32244856425362622242010-03-10T22:20:22.786-06:002010-03-10T22:20:22.786-06:00We'll be doing our premarital counseling with ...We'll be doing our premarital counseling with our minister, and that will be 2 or 3 sessions. <br /><br />As far as non-religious stuff goes, have you tried contacting Tulane/Loyola/UNO? Their counseling departments might either know of something, or perhaps might have grad students who could do it at a more reasonable rate. Also, you might want to contact someone with the Louisiana Department of Mental Health (or something like that). If they don't offer counseling themselves, they may know of someone. Or try contacting a religious organization because they may know of non-religious folk who can handle the counseling.<br /><br />Lastly, check with your insurance to see if it will cover it. With our insurance company you have a $200 deductible, but then after that you only pay like 15% or something so it's about $15 a session (for my regular-non marriage-related counselor) who would otherwise be $100/session.A-L,https://www.blogger.com/profile/09572086822325849480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6983441420203382623.post-79022336566948222202010-03-10T13:11:10.391-06:002010-03-10T13:11:10.391-06:00My husband to be and I did a stayhitched.org progr...My husband to be and I did a stayhitched.org program, and it was about $475.<br /><br />I think all couples have their problem areas, no matter how good/strong/in love/perfect they are. It's not always roses. It's an opportunity to work through some issues in a very neutral area with the help of a professional. I wish we had done something one on one with a professional, but the one day session was really better for us scheduling wise. <br /><br />We have a huge binder with lots of feedback about relationships, our couples survey, and information on being communicative, how to argue. I think you can get the latter from a Gottman book. Bryan was, okay I'll do it, and then after said- that was valuable. I talked to a few therapists who recommended 6 sessions.maurahttp://www.projectmateforlife.com/noreply@blogger.com