I've found the best tool ever on Weather.com. All you have to do is create a log-in, provide your wedding date and location, and they give you this:
Typical Weather for May
Here are average weather conditions for the month of your wedding:
|Typical Weather for May --|
Here are average weather conditions for the day of your wedding:
Isn't that amazing? Now I just have to hope the weather for our date is sooo 2009 and NOT soooo 2008 (or 2000 and LATE, for you Fergie lovers).
I know I can't predict the weather or control it, but this little tool makes me so happy! Now I promise not to check it again until April. Promise.